All it does is show me you have a superiority complex and deep rooted classist tendencies. I’ve been a waitress, a barista and a sales associate, so your talking down to others just tells me at one point you would’ve talked down to me. This guy in the queue tried to buy me a coffee today, after ripping into the guy behind the counter about his skills and his job. Don’t care what people do for a living, if you don’t treat ‘em like (very important) people when you deal with them, we can’t be friends.

"A person who is nice to you but cruel to the waiter isn’t a nice person."

I don’t understand how people don’t get this

It is terrifying. It means if you don’t adhere to their demands or if you make on little mistake, they can turn on you. I don’t deal with people who are nasty to others.

Fucking *this*.

(It is a busy Saturday night. During the dinner rush, I have been dealing with a table of two 20-something year old men. The blonde one has found something to complain about every time I’ve walked by while the brown-haired one just blushes and stays quiet. They’ve finished their meal.)

Blonde Man: “Are you new here?”

Me: “No, sir. I’ve been a waitress here for two years and three years at [other restaurant] prior.”

Blonde Man: “Then you have no excuse for how terrible this service was. The salad was wilty, and the entree was way too cold, and you were nowhere to be found. Plus, this place is far too noisy; I could barely hear myself speak! Honestly, I get better service at a fast food place.”

Me: “I’m sorry you feel that way. While there isn’t much I can do about the noise, I did offer to bring you different food before, but you said no.”

Blonde Man: *waves me off* “Just bring me the check, and try not to be so slow about it for once.”

(I go and get the check, but when I return, the brown-haired man stands up and hands me a $20 bill.)

Brown-haired Man: “Here, this is your tip. He wasn’t going to give you one. As a former waiter myself, I thought you were doing a perfectly fine job. My food was great, and the service was fast even though you’re so busy right now.”

(He turns to his blonde companion.)

Brown-haired Man: “People like you made my job so much worse, especially for making us work that much harder for no tip. So thanks for the meal, but you can go ahead and delete my number because there will be no second date. And by the way,potjevleesch is supposed to be served cold, you idiot.”

(With that, he left the restaurant without his date. It made the whole night worth it, to see that blonde man speechless for once.)

Brown-haired Man is my hero.

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The importance of consent: a narrative.

I will forever reblog this gifset.

look at how badass she is though i mean some of it gets on her too and doesn’t even give a fuck

She pours hot liquid on her own leg she’s that badass.

fire cannot kill a dragon.

that last comment omg

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when I first tweeted these I had to try to hide them from my two psychologist parents but then they got so big that my neighbor told them about it and so they sat me down to ask if I needed help.

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And here, now, are my own photos of my mom as Maleficent.  I have already elaborated on my feelings about her first major cosplay, but I just…

Nothing will really come close to explaining just how proud I am of her. She worked so very hard on this, putting all of the time and effort of three weeks into bringing this to life. It wasn’t easy—I lost count of how many times she had to make tweaks to the hardware of the harness, and how many times she questioned why she was doing this or whether or not she should keep going—but she did it, and I was so very glad to see her so well-received.

I know that I’m very blessed with parents who understand my love of cosplay enough to support it and even help me create things. I am also very glad she finally accepted my invitation to join another part of what constitutes as my little world, and that she enjoyed her time in it enough to want to revisit next year.


I passed over 1000 sales between my etsy and convention travels and to celebrate I’m having a giveaway!

1st Place: The grand prize is a Winter Soldier shirt. I can make these in men’s or women’s shirts and sizes run from S-3XL in men’s and women’s S-2XL.

2nd Place: A zipper bag of your choice from my etsy.

3rd Place: A hair bow or bow tie from my etsy.

How to Enter

1) You do not have to be following either of my accounts to enter but winners who are will receive extra goodies with their prize. 

2) You gotta reblog this post. Only once per day though, courtesy and all. Likes will count as well.

3) Have a mailable address. Any country is fine as well!

4) Be an active legit blog. No blanks or inactive for over a year.

End Date:

August 13th at 11:59pm EST is the latest you can enter. Winners will be chosen through a random generator and announced in the morning and messaged. If you don’t respond in three days I will pick a new winner.


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Cards Against Humanity.

I’m a big fan. Well, I bought this.


It’s great. It hold all of my shit. But it holds something else too.

If you have it, open your box.


You see how I started to tear away at the top of the box there?

Do that.

Do it carefully.


Holy shit.

There’s something in there. What could that be?


There’s a card.

There is a card literally hidden in the top of the box.

But what card?


I fucking love these people.

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Yes, can I help you?


getting home and being able to take off your pants more like


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Chibi the conure relaxes and enjoys scritches (source)

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Look. See, some are smaller, some are fatter, some grow to the left, some to the right, some even have lost some petals. All kinds of observable differences.”

Go see the REVENGE OF THE SHOWDOWNS exhibition at Gallery 1988(WEST) in LA now until August 2!





Three different versions of Pompeii. Capitol Studios, Brit Awards performance, and the original. I don’t know what happened.

This is… AMAZING

It’s like a beautiful choir of dan smiths



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Piano Sofa…I want it!

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My Beautiful Woman based on a true story. 

Think twice before you judge a parent. 

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